All india/Bangalore HelpLine 9880141531 For Local helpline visit – www.498a.org.in

Fight against injustice to MEN and Husband…

Dont bow to the pressure of police and their pressure tactics…

Dont suffer in silence…

Dont think of sucide…

Dont surrender by settlement…

Fight now for a better tomorrow…

No one with little bit of self respect and dignity will ever go for settlement…

Remember “No Defeat is final till you stop trying”

Contact the local HelpLines on http://www.498a.org.in.

Every major city conducts weekly meeting for the benifit of its member and offers help and advice…

All these meetings are in the nature of self help…

Attend these meetings and help others and help yourself…

https://498amisuse.wordpress.com/2010/01/06/how-to-finish-legal-terror/

https://498amisuse.wordpress.com/2010/04/07/actions-needed-to-achive-our-goals/

https://498amisuse.wordpress.com/2010/12/20/why-victims-must-attend-weekly-meetings/

https://498amisuse.wordpress.com/

  1. rajat
    November 12, 2011 at 4:53 am

    A learned judge of a Delhi District court in a very first interaction with a husband (who has been falsely implicated in a DV case by girl family where even no dowry is envolved) during mediation proceedings has been greeted with an opening remarks “that does he know that how many people he has ordered to be hanged. Pay to the wife whatever his wife is demanding for divorce by considering that he was unemployed for a year or he got after with a delay of one year. Bring copy of salary slips, bank accounts in the next meeting of the mediation proceedings.” What you will call this a:

    1. Judicial Terrorism
    2. judicial Extortion
    3. Judicial Corruption or any other appropriate term.

    • December 2, 2012 at 11:47 am

      plz help mane mara ghar vaara bo j paresan kare 6. mane ghar ni bahar nathi javadeta. bo j kaam karave 6,mane mari bi boj j 6. mane jabarjasti merj karave 6.plz mari pase koi opsan nathi. plz help

  2. November 27, 2011 at 5:16 am

    how to talk with concern people to consult regarding my divorce?pls hepl me anybody

  3. mohammed Hamd
    June 24, 2012 at 6:26 pm

    this false dowry case is like, yar ek muhawra hai ki bichu ke katne se jalan hoti hai aur saap ke katne se insaan mar jata hai lekin biwi ke katne se jalan bhi hoti hai aur daily marta hai.

  4. Mahesh Kshatriya
    December 13, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    Meri Biwi ne uske Papa Ko phone karke 31 may ki rat 12:30 Aake mujhe aur meri sister & mere parents Ko gali deke ke aur belt nikal ke marke wo meri biwi ko le gaye hai aur maine 3 se 4 bar waha pe settlement karne ki bat ki lekin meri biwi ne mera jo samaj hai waha pe settlement ke liye bulaya tha lekin usne aane ka nahi bol diya aur hame yani mere parents aur sister & mujhe jhute case me fasa dia hai jab ki na hamne delivery ke liye 50000 mange na koi sharirik aur mansik tras dete the aur marate the aisa zutha aarop laga diya hai aur FIR 498 A case dal ke fasa diya hai aur hamase mafi magawana chahate hai aur 4 lakhs rupees mang rahe hai jab ki FIR fatne ke bad bhi maine settlement karna chaha lekin wo log hume zukana chahate hai aur hamari… plz help me Wt can i do ?

  5. June 27, 2014 at 11:16 am

    Hi mai kamal hu mai Nagpur me rahta hu Maine ek ladki sh payr kiya vo bhi ise ladki jes ka pahle kise ne sharrik shoshan kar diya ye jaane k baad bhi Maine us she payar kiya us ki har jarurat ko pura kiya lek in kabhi us vo gal at nahi kiya Jo us k saath ho chuka h usne mera five years tak istemal ki ya our ek din book muje ab chod do bus koi nahi our chali gai Maine us k garwalo k samne haath joda our pair bhi pada lek in kise ne mere ek na sunk jab kaam rahta that to us garwale muje bhaut kaam batate the par aaj mere koi nahi sun raha koi muje ye bato ki Maine is a Kay gal at kiya Maine aaj 20 din ho gay gar chord diya Kay koi mere madat koi kar sakta h plz help
    9890863238

  6. preet
    July 5, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    Good work.Doing very good work.This is real help to victims.Story about women cells is same.They put pressure and insult a man on behalf of false complaint by wife so that either he will give bribe to women cell officers or he will took her wife to home in fear.They dont see reality.

  7. dinesh kumar nayak
    August 25, 2014 at 6:13 am

    Sir mai Rajasthan k chote se ganv se hu meri shadi 5 may 2011 ko ahmedabad me hui. Is se pehle mai UDAIPUR me computer hardware engineering ka kaam karta tha. Shadi k pehle muze mere sasuraal walo k dwara unke or meri patni k bare me Jo bhi bataya gaya Sab jhut nikla.
    Or meri wife be muze UDAIPUR se job chhodwa di or ahmedabad me hi rehne ko Kaha halaki mai mere maa papa k ek hi ladka hu phir bhi mai ahmedabad mere sasural chala gaya Kyoki mai merit patni se bahut pyaar karta hu. Or wahi Vodafone call center me job Karen lag a. But mere sasural me meri wife se muze pata chala k meri saas pados Ki mahilao ko bulakar VESHYA WARTI ka dhandha karwati he Jo muze nahi pasand kyoki mai ek izzatdaar ghar se hu tab mai merit patni ko lekar ghar chala aayA is se pehle mere sale Ki wife ko bhi meri saas ne majbur kiya that jiske karan 6 saal se wo bhi bechari apne pihar chali gai. abhi bhi mere saas k ghar me kiraye daar ki aad me chaar aadmi rehte he jinme se do ki patniyo ne un pe mukdma kar rakha he ki unka chakkar kahi or he. Or meri saas aise hi kiraye daro ki aad me VESHYA WARTI ka dhanda karwa rahi he jiske sabut he mere pass. Uske baad se meri patni pure saal me sirf do mahine mere swath rehti he Baki 10 mahine uske pihar ahmedabad me Jo muze nhi achha lagta mere 1 saal ka ladka bhi he us se bhi nhi Milne deti. Na hi meri wife mere ghar pe ehna chahti he. mai andar hi andar ghutan feel jar raha hu kya karu mai nhi chahta meri wife aisi jagah rahe jaha VESHYA WARTI chalti he. Mere pass is baat k bhi pukhta sabut he Ki merit saas k ghar par WESHYA WARTI chalti he.
    Sahi rasta dikhaye please mai kya karu

  8. irfan
    November 21, 2014 at 5:06 am

    sir mera naam ..irfan hai..meri shadi ke 2 mahine badh hi usne jhagda shuru kiya…aur uske maa k ghar chali gayi ..maine bohat koshish ki usko wapas lane k liye bt wo nhi aayi aur uske gharwalo ne bhi jhagda kiya aur mere aur mere pure family members pr dv aur 498 case file kiya ..bt maine use wapas ghar lane k liye 2 notice advcate se bheje the aur fir b wo nhi aayi aur kaha talak de do ..to maine usse muslim persnol law ke hisab se aur advcate k guideline se talak diya tha..bt usne wo talaknama nhi liya to maine newpeper me bhi dala tha ab talak hokar 4 mahine bit gaye aur abhi usne iss mahine ki 15 tarikh ko mere upr aur mere family memebr in sab logo pr case file kiya to ab mujhe kya krna chahiye …kya talak hone k badh bhi wo mere upr 498 kr sakti hai..give best advice plzz

  9. nataraj
    December 14, 2014 at 12:30 pm

    Pls help me I am unable to take torture of my wife I am 40years old from Bangalore I am working in an MNC company drawing 50k salary from day one of marriage my wife is torturing me saying thtbi have illegal relationship with other women’s she calls to my office daily and asks others about me she links up almost all women’s in office and calls them and give abuses to them evrybdy in office are laughing at me life is bcm miserable from day one I am begging her to prove it which she is nt doing now after seven years of marriage she is threating that she will get arrested me and torture my daughter she and her mother have abused me to the core nw she is taken my daughter and gone to her native place there thy are torturing her her exams have started my life has been ruined their brthrs are jobless rowdies treating me for money pls help I am very much afraid of dying bcs of my daughter I have no help as my parents are very old I have only last hope pm you when I saw ths site my no is 9034569793

  10. Bhoop narayan sharma
    June 9, 2015 at 7:28 am

    i have got married since 17 Years ago but my wife is not living with me at my house. She has been living for all the years of marriage at her ancestral house. I have told her all the time to leave evrything and evry responsibilty and start living with me but she has denied all the time. Her sisters and their husbands provoked her to not to live with me. My faher and my mother have been died but she has not even come to see them at their funral. Niether she is ready to give me divorce nor she is agreeing to live with me. I have been living all alone all the times. We have no kids. Please help me. How can i get divorce from her. I am very helpless.

  11. September 7, 2015 at 5:28 am

    Sar help me please likhkar nahi baar ho sakti contact karna chata aapse

    • September 7, 2015 at 7:01 am

      Sar m ak muslim hu m ak hindu ladki se payar karta hu aur 2000 hamlog ak dusre ko jante the va saath hi sari education puri ki 2007 me ham logo ne garvalo se chupkar shadi karli vo Muslim me canvart hui aur nikha kiya fir court merrege ki..2015 February me une gar valo ko is baat ki bhank lag gai aur unlogo ne uski shadi 25 mai ko jabar jasti shadi kar di….sadi ke dusre din vo gar a gai aur garvolo ko fir kahti rahi vaha nahi jane k par ak mahene baad vo log usko fir vahi chod aye tab hamlogo ne dusre din gar se bhag liye unke garvalo ne mere garvalo ko paresaan karna chalu kar diya tab hamlogo ne 13/07/2015 ko high court me protection file kiya jiski date 15/07/2015 padi unke garvalo ko bhanak lag gai aur usko high court ke bahar se udha liya aur mujhe bahut mara tab myne high court me haybiyas carpus file kya jiski date 27/08/2015 padi ..par uske gar vaalo ne 01/08/2015 ko mere v mere garvaalo ke upr 376,342,313,506 ka mikadama kara diya…ab sari karvahi vo log satta ki dam par kar rahe vo log yadav h aur sara sistam satta ke hisaab se chal raha riport khud likhakar jabar jast vaha ki police karvati h 164 ke bayaan ma baap purgar ke saamne magistrat kara rahe h vo mana karti ki sab mere marji se hua par satta ka fayda udhakar vo ldki ki ak nahi sun rahae sarpure gar me unlogo ne cctv cemre lagva rakhe jisse vo kahi bhag na jaye sab batati vo mujhkophone se bolti rahti mujhe bachalo papa saatta aur pyse ka pura fayda udha rahe h meri ak nahi chal rahi ….m bolti har adhikari ke saamne ki m apni marje se gai vo mere pati h par vo kahte ki hindu hokar muslim ke saath rahogi ye nshi hoha dm, sp, co , sab mile huye h..sp sahab ne unke garvalo se kaha bhi ki ladki ki jindgi barvaad kar rahe dedo usko hi to unke papa ne cm sahab se phone karva diya…unke papa ke koi sage riste me cm shahab ke saath rahate h ..sar bataiye kya karu agar hamlo gar se fir bhagte h to vo log hamlogo ko mar dege aur mere garvalo ko jeel….sar sara sistam unke saath h…meri wife ka bura haal h bata the ahi ki gar me bahut inlegal cheje h vo pure tumhate gar ko udane ko kah rahe..agar ham log gar fir chod de to ab kya kare koi bhi adhikari saath nahi dega pakdva aur dega …sar jab ham logo ne gar choda tha to vo 3 month ki pregnant bhi thi vo bhi expired ho gaya sar ab gar chodne par hamdono kiske pass jaye jo hamari madat kare vo bolti meri sune to koi sam adhikari mere gar ke chakkar katte h….Please help me….Please please please kon badat kar sakta h ham logo ki….jaldi kejiye sar 4 ko bhi byan huye kuch aur aaj bhi le gaye h usko magistrat ke samne 164 ke bayaan ke le gaye h vo bol rahi mujhe bachalo please m kya karu sir sab batakar gai h ki jaha bayan ho rahe vo mile huye h …sir jaldi bataiye…..Please

  12. September 16, 2015 at 12:25 pm

    Mujhe bhi

  13. September 23, 2015 at 3:35 pm

    Sir naanu eega iro paristhithi yaargu beda saayo na Andre thandethayi ge dikkilla badukoke nan athe mane avru bidthilla chithra himse anu bhavisuthiddene daya maadi nanage nya ya odagisi nimma kaalige bekadare sharanaguthene naanu mohan nanna number 9964617878

  1. No trackbacks yet.

Leave a comment